When you least expect it...............

       You know the old saying when you least expect something it happens......well I can honestly say its true.  Just when I thought there were no decent men left in the world I met a very nice guy.  So far we seem to get along very well and have alot in common.  I havent really posted about it because I thought I may jinx it.  I actually look forward to hearing from him and knowing its not going to be a yelling match or he wont show up at my house drunk.  Keep tuned in to see how this progresses.  Even if a serious relationship doesnt come out of this I know I have definatley made a friend for life.

Baby Daddy Drama

I need some advice on how to deal with my ex husband.  We were married for 7 yrs and seperated 2 of them.  He ofcourse does not pay child support like he should except when he thinks he has a chance of getting back with me.  First of that is pretty f'd up if you ask me.  He doesn't support his child unless he is getting something out of it.  I couldn't imagine not taking care of my children.  If anyone else has baby daddy drama leave me some comments or advice please!

The mor things change the more they stay the same

well once again i found myself opening the door for him again.  this is a vicious cycle that we have fallen into.  me and aaron which is my on again off again boyfriend for the past two and a half years, have been fighting more than usual lately.  it never fails when we do he leaves and about two or three am he comes knocking on the door saying he misses me.  i and ofcourse me being the idiot that i am i let him in.  we are like magnents and gravitate to one another no ,atter whats going on between us.  i love him very much but i can not do this anymore.  if anyone has any advice i would love to hear it.